Civic Engagement Blog Part Deux
Until reading the first article for yesterday’s class, I never really considered self-righteousness to be a problem in the world of civic engagement, but it proved to me that it is something I would really like to avoid. I think the best way to get around the “coat drive” syndrome would be to focus our attention on making connections with people, as we discussed. I don’t see anything wrong with being proud of making a difference to someone else, as long was we don’t start to see ourselves as some kind of martyrs helping out the “other”. And how hard can it be for us to see other human beings as just that?Another concern that was initially a main one of mine was about taking on more than we could handle because I was excited about doing something meaningful (and therefore big). I realized from our discussion that making a big difference for even just a few people IS important. That is why I would want most to stick with the same group of people for an extended period of time. However, I think it would be beneficial for us to work with both children and the elderly for a few reasons. First, those in our cohort who are uncomfortable with one group or feel as though they have much more to learn from one over the other deserve the chance to change their minds. Besides, isn’t one of the main goals of the Paideia program to get people out of their comfort zones and experience new things? I also feel like it would be better for our topic, Understanding Human Behavior, to look at different groups of humans. I think it would make for better comparisons and more interesting discussions.
There is also the question of what size groups to try to work in. Making connections with people, I feel, would be easier in smaller groups (two groups would be small enough). I also feel like it’s pretty important for everyone in the cohort to have experiences with both children and the elderly, so maybe the two cohort groups could each focus on one of those at a time, and after a while switch. This would also make it easier for us to do something continually, maybe weekly or bi-weekly, if the groups were smaller. However, I am not particularly adamant about this—I wouldn’t be mad if we did everything as a group.
The idea of having a specific focus of what to discuss/teach with the children bothers me a little. If we were just doing sports or arts or anything really specific, we would undoubtedly leave some kids out. And if each person in our cohort focused on something similarly specific, I’m afraid I would get left out. I don’t have any expertise exactly, and am much more interested in just talking and getting to know these kids. Maybe it would be good to impose “values” but I feel like that might become a problem with self-righteousness if we assume they don’t already have that. I am most interested in becoming friends with these kids.
Organization of this project is important, though not something I’ve though about in depth. I don’t really like the idea of have a leader or leaders, because I don’t really see the point, unless we really can’t agree on something to do. I think we would make a more informed decision if Suzy helped us pick an organization that wanted and needed our help, rather than something that just sounded good.